What do you do if a girl rejects you saying she has a boyfriend?

Answer 1

The best way to deal with asking a girl out is to be confident(or look like you're confident!). That means being confident when you ask her out AND being doubly confident if she says no. Why?

Well, it makes you feel better (if you can make her believe it doesnt bother you you wont feel as bad will you?) AND it isn't unheard of for a girl to actually become MORE interested in you if you take the rejection like a man. Wierd eh? but true. It happened to me a few times. I asked them out, they werent interested, I took it well and later they asked me out. Doesnt mean that this will happen for you, but if you act confident and don't get upset etc, it might. If not, at least you'll feel better about yourself.

Just have something prepared in your mind...like..."Oh, right, never mind, just thought it would be cool for us to hang out. No problem, didnt know you were dating etc". And importantly....SMILE and maintain eye contact (don't shuffle your feet and look at your shoes). Then, change the subject of the conversation immediately to something unrelated.

This way, she thinks

(a) you arent bothered by the rejection .... you are mature, confident, have good self esteem

(b) smiling and changing the conversation.....again, thinks you arent that bothered so must be pretty cool and confident etc.

(c) you don't look desperate to be with her (a big turn off for girls) which tells her that you are really cool and don't NEED her and maybe you have other grils you could be with instead

Hope this helps. It may not get her to like you any more than she already does but it sure will make her respect you more than if you look devastated by the rejection....and you will feel better too

Good luck

Answer 2

wait till shes not dating anymore or just drop it all together