What do you do if you and your ex boyfriend were together almost a year and he broke up with you and you still love him but you now have a new boyfriend but cant seem to quit thinking about you ex?

Answer 1

To be honest time is what it's going to take to get over him I know what you're going through me and my ex have been broken up for over a year and we were together four years and we still have mad love for each other we are in the process of trying to get back together so I guess what I really should tell you is if you love him and you really love him and you feel like you gotta chance take it you may never stop thinking about him but for the time being maybe you should try to talk to someone else or just get out and mingle with other people to help you get over your ex but really it's going to take time time heals all things and prayer does too!!

The first thing you must do is avoid him. Once your brain is not getting input and feedback on him, pretty soon it will find other avenues to channel its energy. If you don't see, talk or ask anyone about him you will become bored of going over the same old things in your head. But if you continue to hang on it will just drag it out.Also get out and meet men. That's another way to replace the thoughts of him. I think it takes about 6 months then your over the worst then after that it dwindles quicker and quicker to indifference.

Answer 2

These feelings are not fair to your new boyfriend and maybe you should decide if you should be in a relationship at all at this point. You should take time for yourself - single - and sort out your feelings. Things will take time and you may find that neither of these boys at this point are part of your life. Take the time and be true to yourself.