What do you do if you are married but fall in love with someone else and they are married too?

Answer 1

Oh honey, leave before you get deeper! It wont lead anywhere. The quota of men leaving their wifes for a mistress aren't big. Move on even if it's painful for a while. It will get worse if you actually get involved.

Answer 2

Respect his wife and family and move on.

ANSWER:

Ask him to move in with you and divorce his wife. After all he found you right?

never bother yourself with married man they will never leave their wives for you.

they will only waste your time and never marry you.

Answer 3

It's unfortunate, but please keep moving. You will be the one that gets hurt. Most women (just like men) will not leave their mates, and if they do, it's like letting a caged bird free and it doesn't mean they will end up with the person they are having an affair with. If nothing has happened between you keep it that way and move on. Good luck Marcy I know it's far from an ideal situation but if it happened, would it be so wrong? her husband takes her for granted, she's scared and sad to accept this fact, it's hard to give up on a marriage; she's still young and very alone. One day she met this guy who "saw" her, listened to her, made her smile. She told him she was married but he answered he didn't had any fowl intentions, he just liked talking to her. Later on he realized there was something special about her, she made him feel like he hadn't felt for anyone before. Soon she didn't notice how or when but she also felt these strong feelings for him. She enjoyed being with him very much. They haven't kissed or anything yet, although they both know they want that. Right or wrong she's falling in love with him and he's falling in love with her. What should they do? should she try to stop seeing him now, even if they're only friends? Can this friend choose to stay next to her while she heads to a difficult divorce? It can't be right to leave a friend in difficult times. RUN LIKE HELL If you like each other very dearly then you should stay with her and help her to make this decision. She has to do what she wants, you cannot force her to take her decision. But make sure she really loves you and you are willing to be committed to her and support her. Be a good friend to her and help her first before you want any kind of relationship.

Answer 4

In life, we do make choices. There can be wise advice from people but in the end it's us who will decide. In many cases, even with the best advice, we make poor decisions. In this case, it's either the person takes the risk of shame for extramarital affair (at least one is honest to himself) or suffer forever (having lost the the man/woman). However, how could one marry when he/she does not love the person? If one is forced to marry, then the person is wrong in the first place. In everything people do, there are consequences. If things are already complicated, then we cannot undo them by making another foolish decisions.

Answer 5

This is a tough question, but it's important that you remember your commitment to your spouse already. There is no "falling in love with someone else". I realize this isn't the popular opinion anymore, but it's true. And how do you know that you've actually fallen in love with this person? Unless you're already having an affair, and have it substantially longer than you've loved the person you're already married to, you should be skeptical of the fact you've fallen in love with someone else. Marriage isn't something you just do, and then change your mind later. And as if your own commitment isn't enough, definitely don't pursue someone who's already married. A littler scenario: if they're in a legitimately commited relationship and still fell that they can step out of that boundary and "love" you, and you decide that they're worth leaving your spouse for. So you and this new person hit it off and get married, who's to say that they won't leave you and "love" someone else just as easily? This situation has so many issues on so many levels. I would advise you to try even more adamently to love the person you've already pledged to love. If there is an issue in the marriage, resolve it. If you're bored, revive it. I know it's hard, and probably not the answer you're looking for, but your spouse is worth more than this. So seek to love him/her even more. And find someway to forget about this other person.

Answer 6

I think you should vent to a friend. Think about what your chances are. Think about how he LOVES his wife, and betraying her would not only hurt her, but also the man you love.

Answer 7

Get a great lawyer!