What do you do if you feel like you can't do anything right anymore and just want to die but you can't tell anyone?

Answer 1

Well join the club! Most of us, at least a few times in our lifetime feel this way. We reflect back on things we've done and usually we aren't happy about it. We can live on "what ifs" or "I should haves", but the bottom line is, we should reflect from the eye on these events as simply "mistakes" and it's human nature to make them so we learn from these mistakes. Making mistakes in our lives is very important. If we didn't make mistakes we wouldn't learn a darn thing because humans can be an egotistic bunch. When you are 12 to 16 those are hard times. Young adults are learning to flex their wings of independence and it's all unchartered territory so to speak, so yes, one is going to make mistakes. Learn from them! Once you've learned from that mistake keep score and believe me when I say, you'll come out a winner. Then we get into our 20s and it's work, fun, careers, etc., and we feel like we have the world by the tail then suddenly reality kicks us in the butt and puts us in our place. We need rules in life to exist or it would be chaos. From 20s to 30s people meet someone, settle down, have kids, and then there are still problems that we all must get through and learn from. The only breathing room you get is when you get older. By then you've earned every wrinkle on you face, and have also earned the respect and personally, don't give a damn what others think. When older you can dig in your heals and tell people exactly what you think and walk away with a grin. You have a little more freedom because you don't have to worry about holding down a job, or putting up with that pesky relative you would have loved to have punched in the chops over the past years. Even at this age you are still learning new things, making mistakes and hopefully learning from them. Saying you want to die is dramatic and I think you are a much stronger person than that. You may have had a series of things go wrong, but they aren't as bad as you think and here is how you can prove it: Take a piece of paper and write down what went wrong and then right next to it put down how you think you can fix this problem (to the best of your ability.): I split up from my boyfriend/girlfriend and I feel lousy. ANSWER: It's perfectly normal to feel a grieving process when you've split-up with someone you love or thought you loved. Go with the flow, start getting out with friends and before you know it you'll find the love of your life. I lost my job: Many people lose their jobs and it's not always their fault. Companies shave back and there are lay-offs. If it was your fault, then learn from it and just don't do it again. There are other jobs and more than likely you'll land a better job. My life is a mess! Start with the easiest things in your life and improve on them. Then work up to the harder ones. Realize that EVERYONE constantly should be improving their personalities and their moral outlook and also give something back to their community. Yes indeed, life can twist your mind around and make you think that it's not worth living at times, but just as quickly as life did that to you, it changes and things start to get better. I personally think life is a real kick. It's like one great adventure where you just never know what is around the corner. With every drawback or worry, there is something fantastic around the corner if only we take the time to see, listen and learn to communicate. I'm almost 64 years of age. I reflect back on my life and think "Oh my God, if I knew I had to go through all that I would have never believed it!" The kicker is, I've grown stronger from it and I've learned a lot, yet there is always that titilating force that there is still much to learn and I love it! For all the bad things I had to endure there was laughter with family and friends, and some very good memories. I know you are stronger than you think, and I know you're going to make it. Get up off that computer chair, start getting out with friends or making new friends and live! Hang in there and things will get better! Merry Christmas Marcy its sounds hard but you just have to wait it out and better times ALWAYS come