Assuming you know because he confirmed it, of course you will be distrustful for a long time. He will need to earn your respect and trust, that will take time. Get marraige counceling immediately, this is the part where many couples get divorced - during the healing process. Counceling will make things smoother. Also, do not deny him sex. That is the #1 mistake after an affair. His eyes will wander if you deny him the first thing that keeps men interested and attached to their wives. The only reason to deny sex is if he has yet to get a blood test (make sure he is disease free). Then get right back to it. Even if you are upset and still angry. Going through the motions is important for healing. Keep watching him, checking up on him and keeping close tabs. He knows he screwed up and deserves it. You will find yourself easing up with time.
If you cheated on your husband then that means you did not love him in the first place. If you truly loved him, you would not have cheated. So in the end, basically your actions are irreversible.
No, i would not.
No, you cannot trust him, & that's all right. He CHEATED on you. He LIES to you. HE WAS UNFAITHFUL. Thankfully, trust can sometimes be earned back & relationships can be saved. You can try couples therapy or counseling.
dont do it. my ex wife cheated on me and now has more children and wants me back as well. not a hope in hell.
yes that is perfectly normal for men to cheat on women. but you should never cheat on him
You don't want him back.
That could happen. If it did, he'd probably be much harder to catch at it a second time.
No ANSWER: Trust will be hard to give back especially if your husband betrayed you and it depends on situation of the problem. But I do know the trust that make us human will come back to you, not sure towards your husband but it will happen, give yourself time..
Count to zero, say 859,722 Hail Mary's, and then tell him to take a long walk off a short pier.
If you betrayed, cheated or anything related in the least way. You cannot get him back. You could try slaving over him, become his slave forever.
If it was your ex then he hasn't cheated on you because he is your ex. He cannot dump you because he, or you, have already broken up. What you should do is try to grow up.
Are you saying you cheated while broke up? If that is the case i would say NO, dont be in a hurry to tell him, Only if it is really bugging you , then let your conscious be your guide.