Don't let them go.
not always but some time they can be both
Men who are abusive generally have learned this from the environment in which they grew up. Some men have a short fuse and blast off with either verbally abusive words or they become physically abusive with their partner. Some men know deep inside it is wrong, but don't know how to get help and most men refuse to seek psychological counseling because it makes them feel weak and not masculine. If he refuses to get help then you have the power to get out of the abusive relationship.
It does often happen that people will learn how to get their way through verbal aggression, from their own experiences of being verbally abused. Life is an endless learning experience, but sometimes people learn the wrong things. Answer I think it COULD happen but I think it would be the exception and not the rule. Victims in these kinds of situations are usually not abusive types of people - that's why they are victims. If it is an adult who grew up in a verbally abusive environment they may be the victim for a while and then finally snap and turn the tables and become the abuser but I think in most circumstances the victim would not become the abuser in the next relationship.
attempts to control you, refuses to be affectionate in public, verbally or emotionally abusive
It is highly unlikely that man who does not have an abusive personality will become an abuser if their partner grew up in an abusive home and refuses help. Good men know they should never hit a woman which in some cases can lead to male abuse by a woman. The stress of being around an abusive person be it verbally or physical abuse is bound to have effects on the non abusive partner, but most men will only take so much and have the opportunity of leaving the relationship.
They know where your insecurities are because THEY THEMSELVES are overflowing with them. Inevitably they're going to become familiar with them and become naturals at using them..because they are jerks, abusive men are insecure..you need to run
Because he is abusive. Partner abuse is a treatable sickness, but not always curable. Staying with an abusive partner does not help them to become a better person.
because he dumped his girlfriend
The onset of dementia in older people often brings frustration and anger that is taken out on those closest. Your husband should be seen by a doctor who can evaluate his condition and make suggestions.
No one here can tell you. He might not know himself, really. Whatever the reason, enjoy the lack of abuse, and get to work healing from the harm the verbal abuse did to you so you can avoid verbally abusive boyfriends in the future. New answer: I agree with the first contributor, you shouldn't worry maybe he felt regret and sorrow for what he did, but you should be over joyed that you are out of that harmful environment If you are ever in an abusive relationship again END IT! You can get very hurt many young girls die or get seriously injured from abusive boy friends/ husbands it doesn't matter if it was verbal or not IT COULD TURN PHYSICAL!!! now I'm sure you don't want that!
You feel closer to your girlfriend after sex because you went inside her and have become one.
A girl will become a girlfriend if.... A boy asks out that girl, or a girl asks out that guy because they like each other and the are intertested in each other and there answer is yes then they become boyfriend and girlfriend!