What do you do when everyone hates you?

Answer 1

Meow. Give the haters a reason to hate.

If they have already made their minds up about you and formed their own opinions, it would take something drastic to change their minds. Be warned even being very nice and friendly to everyone can backfire if it's not genuine.

• What do they hate about you? Is it something you did or said? Is it your personality? Is it you attitude or the way you behave?
• Is it something you can fix/change without changing what you believe in or who you are?

If however you can't clean your reputation without being someone you're not or changing your values then accept it and be true to who you are. Don't EVER let other peoples opinions rule your life. Getting torn up over what people think of you is a serious waste of time

Try building up any possible friendships you can find or have make friends with your friends friends even or move if you really can't put up with it.

You might also take note of the fact that it is extremelyrare that someone is really hated by everyone. Usually it is just the few people you want to be associated with who decide they don't like you, and you say "everyone hates me." It is not hate and it is not true in the vast majority of cases. Try going to new places and making new friends.

Answer 2

Ignore them if possible, try to make friends with them or hate them back.

I think the same ignore them, I know its hard, but that person want to make you feel intimidated and trying to put you down. If you show that they are able to put you down, and you allow it by showing, they have the reign to make you feel bad even more. Or try to confront the person and ask why. But keep your head held high and don't show that you feel upset. Look and feel like you don't care, it's almost like your being self conscious Its almost like the person hating you is jealous of you, that is the usual reason for people hating others.

Answer 3

You know - you would feel uncomfortable, intimidated, sad and resentful among many other feelings each individual would experience as their own.

You would also feel isolated, alienated and depressed. That would be a life altering experience and would affect the way you view the world and the way you relate to others who come into your life. The causes should be explored with the help of a professional.

Answer 4

I've had this problem for a long time and i don't know how i ever made it through but i finally graduated out of the school this week after 7 years of torment. The only advise i have is to look for artificial friends and interests like Video Games of food or girls or ... OK maybe that wont work but the point is you need an out let because of your lake of respect received. My out let was... well i didn't have one which means you are way better off.