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This happens a lot, and I feel badly for you, but the key word is "he loves someone else." You have no alternative but to talk to him to see if he's moving out and if not, then you should. If he asks why, you can tell him how you feel or decide not to. It's up to you. If it were me, I'd tell him the truth and tell him you didn't realize you loved him until he started to talk to you about the girl he is in love with. You just never know; he could feel the same about you and fate has a way of doing strange things and by knowing how you feel about him perhaps down the road you both will get back together again, only this time in a more romantic setting. Unfortunately, sometimes we get friendships mixed up with love especially if we go out with a friend of the opposite sex and you can tell them anything about yourself and simply have fun. No inhibitions. It's confusing because real love in a good marriage is a mixed bag of friendship and love. Confusing isn't it? You were blind-sided and didn't realize that you were in love with your male friend until he found someone else. Have that chat with him. Good luck Marcy

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Q: What do you do when you love someone and he is in love with someone else but he lives with you?
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