What do you do if your girlfriend is still friends with her ex and she sees him and talks to him on the phone?

Answer 1

"friends" okay. "best friends" not okay.

talk with them both. voice your discomfort peacefully.

Well what I would do is stop being paranoied. It is good to still be friends with your ex's. They were proabably friends before they went out and still want to be friends. If it really bothers you talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel about her talking to her ex. She might get a little mad that you dont trust her unless you really have no reason to trust her. Well I hope it works out. laterz

Sit down and talk to them both. I agree they both probably were friends and they still should be. Don't ruin your relationship just because she is talking.

Answer 2

Yeah, If they go see a movie together go too, and hangout with them so you can get a feel of how they feel and if you should be weary or not. Your girlfriend once wentout with this guy and he thinks she's great enough( or had a good bond that only could be a friendship)that he wouldn't want to lose her as friend, if she's a great girlfriend remember you can't pick her friends. Stating you mind, but it's alright. will show her you care but respect her, and just worried to lose her. Whatever you do don't threaten or be tough or mean to him, she might choose his side and that wouldn't be pretty. P.S. Talking is key to all relationships and note bodylanguange. answer 2: Iam afraid that there may not be a lot you can do? everybody in this life is free to do what they want within reason and nobody owns anybody if this is the situation you are in then you can only do what is reasonable...the fact of this life Iam afraid is that women get more attention from the opposite sex than men do for obvious reasons of procreation...you will have to trust her completely but if you cannot stand it then find another girl...but I suggest you don't become a doormat either

Answer 3

That depends on how she responds, if she is talking to him then she may just be friends with him, after all they have a history together. Tell her this makes you feel insecure, don't insist she stops contacting him but she may not realise it upsets you.

If however she would prefer it he left her alone, maybe you need to talk to him and tell him to stop contacting her, as your girlfriend doesn't like it. But don't do this without talking to your girlfriend first, you don't want to upset her.

Answer 4

Well coming from your girlfriends point of view: the same thing happened to me, my ex told me he still loved me although I obviously just wanted to be friends since I had a new boyfriend. Luckily, my boyfriend ignored him and eventually the ex-boyfriend just gave up. But if you're not feeling any trust with your girlfriend maybe you should tell her it makes you unconfortable that she still wants to be his friend. Communication is key.

Answer 5

nothing, absoultely buggerall let her talk if she starts dissapearing off suspiciously then pull her up about it but as long as shes only talking dont do anything. because if you start screwing at her and it turns out they are only talking she will probably dump ur paranoid ass

Answer 6

You should move on. If there is any dout about her feelings with her ex, then their will douts with you for sure. Until she gets over him, you should get over her.

Answer 7

i think you should be friends but not too close