First you need to know who you are and where you want to go in life.If your second guessing the relationship you are in already there must be a reason.(hopefully its not that you are up for excitement and a new fling)I my self have wondered if my life would be better with another man and when it all comes down to it you must ask yourself is this friend worth breaking the heart of your loving boyfriend.?When someone finds that they want more to life they think they can find it in anothers arms when infact they will find themself in the same position later on down the road in the new relationship.What would you miss about your boyfriend?What if you could never have him back once you left.Think it through because the last thing you want is to break your own heart in the long run.CHEATING IS NOT AN OPTION!
If she is really your best friend she will continue to be your best friend, no matter who you are dating.
Choose the one that you really like/love , you can still be friends with the other one .
It depends no what your definition of 'bf' is. 'Bf' could be best friend or boyfriend. If it is your best friend, then its because he doesn't really love you. If its your boyfriend, then he's not really your boyfriend, is he? If your boyfriend doesn't say he loves you or even admits to it, he's not really your boyfriend.
I'm afraid that if their relationship is a good one, and they are happy with eachother, then there really is nothing you can really do. If your friend is happy with her boyfriend, but he is not happy, then there are no ways that you can get the guy without losing your friend. If you are prepared to loose your friend over this guy, then you should tell him how you feel. Just remember, that boyfriends come and go, and are usually not worth it, but friends are FOREVER and will stay with you through thick and thin. Just ask yourself - Is this boy worth loosing my friend for?
My boyfriend of 3 years was my best friend. It takes alot of courage and guts for a man whos been your friend forever to tell you that. My boyfriend aka best friend dated a few people when we were friends and loved me the wole time. I say he means it. But yet i dont know your relationship all that well. Can you trust what he says? Was he drunk when he said it? If so id be asking him if he really meant what he said. If hes your friend forever, im sure you can be honest with each other. good luck
She should choose which one she really likes and stick with that option
You choose between them... even though its tough. You have to think, Which one cares for you more. If you don't want to do this, maybe you should have a talk with them both separately, then talk to them together and try to see if they really do have feelings for each other. If your friend was using you, then she wasn't ever really your friend.
You shouldn't have to choose. In all actuality it really is up to whom the guy chooses but remember you can keep a friend longer than you can a boyfriend.
Either tell your boyfriend you need to take a break or confort your friend in a non flirty way or cheat ( but dont do that than cause i bet you he is probebly saying that to get you in his arms ) PS: and fyi you cant love 2 people at the same time Or, you can my answer: First of all, you need to decide with no one else's opinions but your own which person you love more: your boyfriend or your best friend. If you decide that you love your boyfriend more, you need to carefully tell your best friend that you love them as a friend but you love your boyfriend more. If your best friend is a good friend, they will understand and live with the choice you choose because if they really did 'love' you, they would care about your feelings more than your own. If you decide to choose your best friend over your boyfriend, you might be in for a lot of drama with your boyfriend.. But if your best friend is really worth it, they will help you get through it and I personally think you'd be happier in the long run. But it depends on your relationships with both of them. (I know from experience because this situation has happened to me in sorta reverse. I was in love with my best guy friend, who had a girlfriend at the time. I decided to tell him my feelings for him, and he cared about me and completely understood.. But he never chose me over her. But I care about him and I completely understand his side of the situation. The moral is... If you choose your boyfriend over your best friend, your best friend will probably be really hurt, but they might get over it eventually..and painfully.) I hope this helps :) -M.
Well it depends. Is your boyfriend's best friend recently been dumped? Cause then he could be confused. Or maybe, you make your boyfriend really happy and his best friend wanted to be happy too. You should tell your boyfriend if you really love him.
well first off it is always flattering to have someone like you? But for it to be your boyfriends friend that can cause problems for you. If you really wanna be with your boyfriend you really should only hang around his friend in a comfortable setting and you should let your boyfriend no about what you have discovered.
Yes. Your Best Friend Forever (BFF) is a friend that is really close to you. You almost ALWAYS hang out with each other. It is good to have more than one BFF too.