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If they are still dragging up past issues and cannot get by them you both need to sitdown together and discuss this situation as it cannot carry on. You need to discuss how one another feels about whatever issues there are and deal with them then leave them in the past - learn from the mistakes, forgive and try to move forward. If they feel they cannot give this behaviour up and move forward then you may have to rethink your relationship and if your willing to put up with this ongoing or get out while you can and move on.

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I think every situation is different and you would have to handle it in your own way. If someone you love has hurt you deeply, just tell them ihow they have made you feel. Then you can choose to either try to work the situation out with them or walk away and be done with it. If you really love that person and they love you you should be able to work it out. No one likes hurting the ones they love. You have to let them know that they cannot do (whatever it was) to you again and if that person really loves you, he/she will make every effort to avoid doing anything that could hurt you. Tell them you forgive them, do it, and move forward. If you love them forgive and get past it.

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