Human sexuality is more fluid than most of us think: it's not as simple as males and females. There's apparent physical sex -- the external genitalia you have; there's genetic sex -- the XX/XY chromosome thing; there's sexual preference -- the sex of the people you're attracted to; there's gender dysphoria -- "a man in a woman's body" or vice versa, and even more.
And then there's fantasy, where you can conjure up anything at all, even if it doesn't fit "official" categories. If you are generally content with your life, just enjoy your fantasy. If your feelings go deeper than fantasy, read up on transsexuals, for starters.
There are counselors who specialize in these areas who can help you sort things out. Above all, don't panic -- your feelings will lead you to a deeper understanding of yourself.
Since the female is a masochist, the male will bite her to satisfy her sexually.
male and female
Ask her.
Sexually like most fruits. Many fruits have the male and female on the same plant, but some, like cherries, have male trees and female trees.
The function of both male and female puberty is to sexually mature
There are no male and female viruses. Viruses do not reproduce sexually and so do not have gender.
Yes
Sexually transmitted diseases can be passed from an infected male to an uninfected female. Any contagious disease can be transferred from male to female.
Nothing within moral limits.
sexually normal male or one attracted to female
sexually via external fertilization where the eggs are shot into the water by the female and the male fertilizes them.
Yes, a male and female Lion must mate successfully for the female to become pregnant.