It's not an outright refusal, she's not saying she doesn't want to be with you, but she's clearly not ready to marry, there may be many reason for this and you have to respect that. Wait for her if you love her, someday she may be ready but for now simply enjoy being with her. NO, for now. You probably took her by surprise. She may say yes in the future or she may be too young and she has other things she wants to do (college, travel the world) before she gets married. == == == == == == Im a girl so take it from me ... ok im only 13, but still just listen, girls are ...ok....let me see.... we ..... are VERY different to men (in many ways) but emotionaly, had she any clue that you were goin down the path of marrige and proposal? because if not she might of been surprized (as said in ans. 1) but if she did have an idea that you were gonna propose she just might not be ready so she let you down easily, that does NOT mean she doesnt want to be with you. Just give her some time :)
She might just be afraid of making a commitment.
Yes, but if you are feeling reservations than wait until you are both ready
1) it means she is not ready for the "I love you" type of commitment 2) girl is caught by surprise and panicked
When a guy says this they mean commitment or wanting to enjoy what they are doing, when a girl says it they usually just mean keep it cool ull get it when im ready.
He wants his cake and to eat it to. Which means he doesn't want to have just one girl. Open your eyes, it's obvious he is not ready to commit, he said so himself. The question is, are you willing to let him have more than one girl? And why are you calling him your boyfriend if he said he's not ready to commit? That means he's not your boyfriend, he's just your boy-friend.
Well I look at it if you question this than not sure if it is a good idea. That is the next step to commitment, if you have to ask it then maybe you should talk to see if she is ready for the next step.
She loves you but is not ready for a commitment. She either does not fully trust you are has been through so rough times with passed relationships. You should just be patient and try to help her.
If you are looking for a committed relationship then this is not the girl for you. If you like being around her then ask her out on a date, but, keep dating other girls. You can later ask her out on another date. Keep it light and airy and don't act like you want to a commitment of any sort. Some young women and young men aren't ready for commitment for reasons of their own and at least she is honest about it.
Even though she said no doesn't mean she doesn't like you. she just isn't ready to get married. give her about a month and that doesn't work take more time.
Well....let me share my experience when i proposed a girl.......she started cryin.....;0
it depends whether the boy likes or doesn't like someone, most boys are scared they will get rejected, so that is a reason. another reason is that shy boys are not as commited as other boys and so they are not ready to make a commitment, i am not ready and im a girl so its natural to your type of personality.
To help forget someone who proposed, the girl can try to limit contact with him, focus on self-care and personal hobbies, talk to friends or a therapist for support, and give herself time and space to heal and move on. It's important for her to remember that healing takes time and it's okay to feel a range of emotions while going through this process.