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What does looking at someone as an ideal mean and should I be worried if I have feelings for this person and I'm not the ideal?

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June 29, 2008 6:24PM

If something is ideal, it's the best, but it varies from person to person. For instance, an ideal travel trip for, say, my mother, is one that involves her family and is relaxing. But the ideal travel trip for my best friend is one that involves going abroad, public transportation, and lots of hustle-and-bustle.

If the person you like looks at you as the ideal, well then, that's great. If you look at them as the ideal, than that's even better.

If you aren't the ideal, don't worry. Don't dwell on it, because most people's ideals don't match reality, and people always come around. Society throws around ideals so much...you'd go crazy worrying about all of them. He or she will still return your feelings at one time or another if the match is well. :)