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That is a difficult position to be in. A lot of it depends on the age of the "young girl." Has she finished high school? Is she old enough to get a job, get her own apartment, buy her own food, support her baby? "Wanting" is very different from "doing." Who will watch the baby when this young girl is at school? Is it fair to the girl's mom and dad to expect them to support another person if this young mom can't do it? What will the girl be able to do and not do. But most of all is it good for the baby?

What kind of life will this new person have? Will there always be arguments and hard financial times? Will he/she be able to get a good education and always feel loved, or will there be resentment both from the new mom for all the things she now may not be able to do and the grandparents. And, what about Dad? As a mom myself I understand the young girl's position. My daughter is 19, I'm not sure how I would advise her in this situation, but I would tell her that once you become a mom, it's not about YOU any more. This new person did not ask to come here, but deserves the best life possible and it's up to you as the mom to make sure your child gets it, and sometimes that means making hard decisions. Good luck and may your heart and mind be clear.

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Q: What if a young girl is pregnant and wants to keep her baby but mom thinks she should give it up for adoption.?
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