If he also likes you, let him know how you feel. Tell him how much you like him and that he's a really great guy but you aren't ready for a commitment yet. Hopefully he'll wait until you are ready and even if he doesn't, you have to realize that it is not an easy decision to wait for someone that yu might not even have a future with. Try to understand where he's coming from. If you're unsure or know that he doesn't like you back, don't worry about it. Simply move on. You don't have to stay committed to him until you're completely ready to.
maybe because he might still feelings for you or some times when you are drunk you think of the person you broke up with if you where an ex boyfriend to someone you will send a message
Spend less time talking/hanging out with their boyfriend, and eventually your feelings for him will diminish. You're not a bad person for having feelings, but you would be a bad person for acting on them even though you know he's taken.
Feelings can often be complicated. Having feelings for another person isn't necessarily bad, however, acting on those feelings while still with your boyfriend would be considered wrong.
If she has a boyfriend it would be best to not voice your feelings at this time. You cannot knowingly try to come between them if your truly her friend. I realize it must be hard to stand by and watch her with someone else but she is with that person because she wants to be.
because they feel guilty for hurting your feelings
Well, it depends on your true feelings for him. If your feelings are genuine then I would say yes. Give it a try.
Well I would dump him because if he still has feelings for his ex does that mean that he's been cheating on you?
You shouldn't do that. It is unfair to that person because you are essentially lying to them. You wouldn't be happy with them either; pretending that you enjoy their kiss or pretending to like holding their hand. You would really hurt this person's feelings by doing this to them.
you don't love him any more and you should probably move on because who would want to be with some one you don't love
Ignore it.If you had a true relationship he wouldn't do it he would say no because it would hurt your feelings remember love is whimsical its here 1mintute and gone the next
The best thing to do is to simply try to get rid of all your past feelings and move on. You have a boyfriend now and you should focus all your attention and feelings on him. How would you feel if you found out he still had feeling for an ex? Not very good I would think. So forget about the past and focus on him. If you can't do that then you shouldn't have a boyfriend because you're only hurting him. Tell him you need time to move on from your past relationship(s) and when you're ready for a new relationship tell him.
this means that you still like this person because.. you wouldn't be dreaming of your ex-boyfriend out of the blue. it would mean that you miss him and like him still.. and still have feelings for him. or maybe your subconscious is tryna tell you that he likes you and you should talk to him again START the love all over again if you know what i mean.