What if your boy friend is an independent Hip Hop artist and you dont know how to deal with him being gone so much you know he has to be gone sometimes but how much is too much He has put out a few CD?

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If your main concern is that he is gone so much I should imagine you must be missing him an awful lot. I'd be interested to know how much contact you do have ie, e-mails or texts or phone calls, there are lots of ways to keep things lively while your apart. It sounds like your a really supportive girlfriend to me and im just thinking is there any scope for you to go with him sometimes, or even just for a day or two maybe you wouldn't feel so out of it. It doesn't sound like you have talked to your boyfriend about this but maybe a little chat when you get chance could make a difference to how you feel?

A little but important fact I learned when my boyfriend and I parted for 5 weeks was how to live without him take a little look at yourself and don't focus on him quite so much - what are you passionate about? what are your interests? my advice make plans, go get your hair done, plan nights for just you to spend with you....make yourself the most important thing on your agenda, fill your diary...go get what you need rather than waiting for it to come to you.....I promise you will not be posting on websites because busy you will not have time and before you know it your boyfriend will be wondering where you are? I really hope this helps you sweetheart, and that you and your boyfriend find a way to bridge the lonely gap you seem to be feeling *much love* TJ