What if your boyfriend talks bad about you behind your back?

Answer 1

So what? Girl honestly. You're during the same thing right now. If he's talked bad about you its for comfort and validation. Same thing you looking for. Either you let him go or let it go knowing who you truly are. That's all you can do. As much as i would like to say dump him. I wont. Cause i dont advice people things. I only give them SOMETHING to think about based off my experience. What yo dude did. I did to my ex and everyone sided with me. Cause they know the truth about him even if he makes you out the bad guy. And not to mention there are things about him you don't know. As far as him calling you crazy. So what!! Thats the first thing men are ready to holler when they screwed up. Other than facing the fact they brought out those reactions and that they are responsible for everything you question in them as you are the same.

Let him run to his friends. But if he cant be honest with you. He's fake. Simple. Either you accept he's fake and rub it in his face, or not. Or simply call him out on it and keep moving. I talked mess about my ex but at the same time i told him to his face. About every single feeling. However he was secretive and honestly maybe a free spirit ( you all know what i mean by that). I didn't trust him. And being a women who also been called crazy. I didn't trust myself. Cause he provoked me. In many ways. But what i learned. If he lack communication. Giving him complete silence is a thing that hurts... They dont know what to expect or how to respond. And if he think YOU crazy. Just see how he'll react if he truly loves you. Call it mind games or call it the game. All i know is. What his friends think of me is not my concern. What he thinks of me might be. But if he's not willing to open up. Its simple reasons why. He know he provokes you, he know something you dont, he recognizes your worth as a women to him, his insecurities, and or he simply playing a game. Basically he's getting something usefull out of you... And honestly if it's sex you can shut it down cause it has a mental tole anyone. But if you can move pass it. Do so without being emotionally involved. This the world we live in sadly. And it may or may not be clear to us. But what it is. You can control or exclude. They say crazy women give the best sex. So he call you crazy but not letting go. Guess what?. You is to your advantage. Then you'll see. If all those things he say is true and if so you'll see your leverage

Answer 2

if you know for certain, confront her about it. don't come across as angry or annoyed, but simply question why she would do such a thing.

If you cant be certain she has definitely been talking behind your back, tell her that you've heard she has and need to hear it from her that she hasn't to reassure you.

Answer 3

Then he is not good enough for you and you should find someone who likes you for you and you like them.