What if your ex-boyfriend texted you the night you broke up asking to be friends but he seems scared to talk to you He also is always watching you what should you do?

Answer 1

He's wondering if he made the right decision in breaking up with you. He's feeling uncertain that's why he acts like this. I can understand why he's nervous to talk. Texting leaves lot's of room to make a fool of yourself. At least you get to think of what to say first, instead of saying it on the spot like if you were talking face to face. The problem with this though is that it will prevent intimacy.

Advice: If you still want to be with him don't be friends. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. He might find out that all he needed was a bit of time away from you. There are a lot of statistics that show that after breakups the couples that get back together were the ones that weren't in touch during the break up. It allowed them to miss each other. You can tell him you don't think you can be friends with your ex's (hey I've never really heard of people who do that anyway. It's pretty unlikely), or just let it be. Leave him alone. While he's making sure you're not thinking ill of him, he might call/text you a couple of times to check up. Just let your phone buzz the first couple of times, because I find that if he really cares about you he will text you more than once or twice! This will be a good test to see how he feels.

However if you don't want to be together anymore then you are allowed to be friends.

If he's watching you, that's a little creepy. But if he's watching you just hang out with friends, have a nice time, joke, laugh, let him know you're not thinking ill of him OR the break up. This will help you anyway in any case.