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What if your husband treats you horribly is he angry because he got caught in a 3 year affair?
Reginabates
You deserve it, you really do. But you shouldn't have to take any physical abuse-if he does, walk out on him. But you should try to show that you still love him. You did betray him, but if you really love him, you have to tell him the truth and let everything out, or else the relationship doesn't have a chance of healing.
Please re-read MY question. HE had the affair, and is treating ME horribly! Why? Cause he got caught, and still wants to maintain the affair?
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It depends on what kind of an affair this was; there are two typres, a physical affair and an emotional affair. A physical affair is just about sex really, and the cheater just doesn't feel satisfied by their partner. In an emotinal affair, the person is cheating on their partner usually because their ppartner cannot fill some sort of void, or is caused by some sort of mistreatment-this happens a lot when a parent is protecting their child from their partner who isn't the actual parent.
He may feel really guilty, and that could be a form of it-look out for any signs of self-abuse-that means he feels sorry about the affair and still cares for you. He might be angry because he feels that he shouldn't have needed to be driven so far as to cheat on you. He could really want to stay with the person he was having the affair with, although that's actually somewhat rare.
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What if your husband has a 3 year affair and is treating you horribly is he angry cause he got caught and he still wants to maintain his affair?
he is proberly angry because he got caught and hes mad that the person that found out with give him problems.Hope this helps.=)
Why does a huband treat you horribly tell you he loves you after getting caught having a 3 year affair?
Because he wants to continue using you and you will let him as long as you pose this question to yourself.
Why do some married men choose a single or divorced woman when they decided to have an affair?
Because it is risky enough possibly getting caught by his wife, he doesn't need to add to the risk of getting caught by "her" husband.
Which is better to accept your husband admitting his affair to you or you discovering it?
It is much better if the husband admits to his affair because it shows he has remorse and humans make mistakes, but when a husband has the intestinal fortitude to admit he was wrong in what he did then he is ready to try and make the marriage work. A husband who has to be caught in an affair may even become angry over the fact his wife found out and he is neither remorseful and basically selfish not considering the hurt he is inflicting on his wife and family.
Will your spouse have an affair to because you were caught?
yes i think she would
Husband admits to cheating?
I think that is the right move, but my question is, did you caught his affair or he came forward and tell you about it. Now the limbo will start, all the question will come out from you. You will have this betrayal and trust issue with your husband. One thing though, do not let your husband tell you " it just happen" or I'm sorry I didn't mean to do it." This are what most married men will say when they get caught. If you think about it, he is not a tiny sorry for having an affair nor it just happen, because he did planned what he did.This will be up to you, either you want to forgive him and he might do it again, or move on without him in your life. It's not hard being a divorce, I did it because the man I married had affair to...
Does your husband expect his wife to just forgive and forget that she caught him in a 3 year affair when he tells her to either get over it or get on?
Time to end the marriage and move on to someone who will be a real husband.
If your husband got caught in 3 yr affair and the OW dont want him he did not stop the affair on his own accord he is angry at you is he upset because the affair is over because he loves her?
it sounds like he is in love with her, or he would be trying harder to make your marriage work.
Can your husband have caught something from a woman he had an affair with and given it to you?
Yes, if a husband is caught having an affair with another woman he could have picked up a sexually transmitted disease and given it to the wife. People must realize that in most cases when they sleep with someone other than their mate that person could have slept with many people and picked up a sexually transmitted disease.
What could happen if I keep loving a married man when I am already married?
Most people who have a conscience would feel haunted by the fact they are cheating on their husband and the affair would suffer because of it. Also you could run the risk of being caught by your husband and some men are not willing to forgive so easily when hurt that badly. If you love your husband then it would be wise of you to end the affair immediately. If you do not love your husband then do not keep cheating, but let your husband know the truth and file for divorce and then, and only then should you be seeing this other man. When in doubt put yourself in the shoes of your husband!
If your husband had a 3 year affair and you caught him and asked were there any others he says NO does that mean he loved her that is why he did it so long and only with her?
Yep. He apparently really wanted her.
What if your husband had a 3 year affair and got caught you feel like he died the pain is so intense will he do it again with her or another?
yes. hes sick and unappreciative. you can do better.
