What is it about the heart that makes a woman love a man who has been mean to her and he has proven himself to her to be non-deserving of her love and affection.?

Answer 1

In this case; the women is needed to really get strong at her heart and the emotions both. Its just her mind which is not letting her accept that he is non-deserving of her devoted love. That's why she thinks about the heart now also; when she is self-known about him. To get strong at the heart she has to give herself time to think over again; where that man has been wrong to her ? Then; she should think her situation after the 3 years with him...and he being the same mean person. This will make her heart little contended that she was with a wrong man; as sometimes; people mistook their own thoughts and go for the wrong and when they realize their own emotions become the barrier as they had lot of dreams. So; just get self-control and try spending the time somewhere else and forget whatever he did wrong to you. As you learned the great lesson. From the next time; don't let anyone mean to you. Also; when a person is really devoted in love; he/she gets blind and start doing everything to please the beloved. But he/she always has to keep their mind and heart open to realize is the person beside really deserves your kind love? so that you yourself wont get hurt in the future. Because if you'll be hurt; there would be no sign of regret on that person's heart and it would be only u...who will suffer and will lose again...earlier your love and dreams and later your health and beauty. So; forget; get strong and be happy; show that person that u r really happy without him and just wait for the deserving person of ur great love and affection.