That has to be up to you. I personally told my best friends out right and let them deal with it. Most were cool with it. When it came to my family, I was a bit more scared to tell them, so I wrote my Mother, my brother and my two sisters letters and mailed them.
How and when you decide to tell your friends/family you are gay is totally up to you.
if you mean friends or at school or something what worked for me since i couldn't get myself to say it i passed notes in class but only do that with ones you know will accept you for the other ones meet them somewhere private then just tell more and more people until you are confident enough to completely come out of the closet
if you mean at a bar or something than first of all gay bars work great for that but other than that the best you can really do is ask guys out yourself instead of waiting for them to ask you
If you're talking about high school, then what worked for me was being fully accepting.
I am a branch of bisexual and I told my one closest friend, which eventually led me to telling my two other friends.
Eventually, when you tell the people you can trust, you become more confident in telling other people as well, so start smal and then grow.
By telling him. That would be the best option. Don't email or text for instance. Speak to him
Kenny Everett was a comedian and a radio DJ in England. Even though he was married he let everyone know that he was gay. In 1995 he died from AIDS.
okay i dont know if your gay or using it to say its gay but if you are gay and he is to you should go for it the same if you are not and you are saying that you are in love you should not wait to tell him cus you never know what tomarrow will bring and you should let him know how you feel.
It is OK to act any way you want. Don't think that all gay people "act gay". Most gay people act just the same as everyone else. You can't tell a gay person by just looking at them. They have to let you know they are gay. They might do this by telling you, or they might decide to "act gay" because they want you, or everyone, to know. But gay people are everywhere: bus drivers, doctors, delivering mail, farming, lawyers and judges, teachers and students. But you can't tell by looking at them.
If you find out you are gay make the most of it. Show off the fact that you are gay and get some lads and let the world know you are gay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you do not want other to know, talk to him personally. This is the best and the most efficient way to show you care.
you do him in the a$$ Great answer from Stoogeville....you bring up topics about gay hate crimes and/or gay civil right or gay marriage. Be studious in his answers....wait for a sign or a safe time to just ask. Don't immediately expect the truth, but let him know he is totally safe to tell you whatever....and mean it.
sometimes they may not know what their doing but do it anyway everyone makes a mistake in life even your best friend
You are straight. The problem you could be gay or bi because of your thoughts. When you lose it in your thoughts with this battle of gay or bi it will show up in your behavior. Do not let it go and let gay or bi win over you.
He wants to let everyone know you are his. Are you?
I guess you don't have to just go out and say, " Hey everyone I'm gay!" If someone asks you just tell them you are. Act like it's no big deal and don't be really drmatic, because it shouldn't be a big deal anyway
If you know that they really are gay, you can always talk to them and let them know that you are interested. But dont start out too strong or they may suspect that you are not what you seem to be.