What problems might you encounter having your 90-year-old parents live with you?
First - physical issues. Are you in an apartment? Is is
upstairs? If not, are either of your parents in a wheelchair? Are
your doors wide enough to accomodate one? Do you have handholds in
your shower or tub? Second - Privacy issues. Are your parents
willing to give up some of their privacy? Are you? Remember you'll
hear each others phone calls, see each others mail (at least the
envelopes). Are both of you ready for that? Third - Miscellaneous
issues. Do your parents expect you to entertain them? Do you expect
to? When you come home from work, will you watch your favorite TV
program or will they want to talk? Similar schedule issues can
arise if you are their means of transportation. Do they drive? If
not, will they look to you as their wheels? This is just a start .
. . Good Luck.