I've been with my first girlfriend for almost 2 years, since the day I came out. I love her so much, and she's amazing, but I recently met another girl who I'm extremely attracted to and cannot stop thinking about. I feel like I'm cheating even though I haven't done anything. My girlfriend and I have plans for the future, share all the best friends, and we live together now... I would screw everything up if I acted on impulse. What should I do? :(
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This sort of thing is going to happen now and again; it happens to all of us. So ask yourself how you would feel if your girlfriend was secretly attracted to another person -- chances are, it would hurt. So take a deep breath and remind yourself that yes, it's tempting, but no -- it's not worth throwing away something you've spent two years building.
tell him how you feel.. or try and move in with someone else if that's an option.
Of course who hasn't. In all honesty though if your questioning whether or not your attracted to someone you should end it now. because if your really attracted to someone you won't question it.
dump her
well if you still like her alot then no. but if you don't then tell her your not attracted to her anymore
You should wait until youre BOTH ready to have sex. If not, it would be an extremely awkward moment
That thought is all wrong dont try to do that You can't make someone like someone else. If they are attracted to someone of the same sex then they are. Simple as that. You may be attracted to someone, but that doesn't mean they return the feeling or should.
The feelings you have for your girlfriend should be strong. If you don't have these feelings you need to break up. There is someone for everyone.
Well if you mean by age?!?! love has no age.
yep.
I think you need to ask the question, Why is he with me if he is not attracted to me, and also, ask yourself, Why do I want to be with someone who does not find me attractive?
If you know she likes your friend more then you, it's too bad but you should probably move on to someone better who is crushing on you!
If you think you are in love with another person then you should break up with your girlfriend, because that's not fair to her or you.