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I have to give you thumbs up for feeling guilty enough to at least be honest with your wife. She may already suspect you have cheated. This is a risk you are going to have to take and a big risk that she may leave you. Still, honesty is the best policy. If you have only cheated on her once then you may have a good chance, but if you've cheated on her more than this you aren't worth stepping through that door into her life. Get counseling! Before talking to her go for a quiet walk or sit in a quiet park or by the beach where you can think rationally. There is nothing better than being with mother nature to see your problems in a more clear manner. Ask yourself why you felt you had to cheat. Be honest even if it means your wife may have faults that you can't handle. Once you have been honest and open with yourself then sit your wife down one quiet evening (if you have children send them over to their grandparents or a friends place for the night) and have the evening with your wife to break the news to her and then tell her how you really feel and why you cheated. Let her know you have hurt her and broken that bond of trust and because of that you wanted to be honest and open and to assure her that you love her. Also let her know that people are human and make mistakes, but you have learned from this mistake and wanted to be honest to start off the relationship on a better note. Speak from your heart and tell her why you felt you needed to cheat and if there are problems in your marriage tell her about them and let her know you want to work towards a stronger marriage. Hopefully she will forgive you and you'd better hold up your end of the deal with no more cheating!
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If I have proof my husband has been cheating should I tell the woman's husband?
If you have absolute proof that your husband is cheating with this other woman then you should deal with your own problems with your husband first and yes, the other woman's husband should know. This is not an uncommon problem and most people (whether a husband cheats with another man's wife or a wife cheats with one of her friend's husbands) is very common and the victim of the cheating generally does tell the husband or wife that their spouse is cheating with their spouse.
Should you tell the wife if the husbands hitting on you?
Confront the husband first, then talk to the wife if the husband doesn't stop.
Is it okay to divorce a husband who beats and cheats on his his wife?
YES
Should you tell the wife you had an affair with her husband?
No. Let sleeping dogs lie.
Should a husband tell their wife they have Hep C?
Absolutely! It doesn't matter how he got it! He could pass it on to his wife!
What movie is it when the husband cheats on the wife with the perfume woman?
The Women (1939)
What is the name for a woman whose husband cheats on her?
There is no special name for a woman whose husband cheats on her. The name of a man whose wife cheats on him is a cuckold.
What happens when a wife cheats on her husband and gets pregnant?
Hopefully you had sex with your husband on, or about the time that you conceived. Tell your husband the happy news that he is about to be a father. He will raise the child as his own. And for goodness sake be more careful next time.
What is the movie where the husband is some writer or editor and the wife works with a rock band and cheats on her husband?
shabd
If a cheating husband gets upset when his wife cheats on him considered hypocritical?
They are both hypocrites for cheating in the first place. They should obviously not be together.
Is separation is the right thing for a husband who cheats on his wife?
i believe that would be the best solution,if your wife wants to be seperated.
How do you tell if a husband hates his wife?
If he punches her.
