Ooh, that's tough. I've been cheated on and finding out is not the greatest feeling in the world. However there are many different things to take into account. You might not be able to handle the lifestyle of waiting around for any news from your husband. So you might be giving up on the idea of being a war wife subconsciously. This doesn't mean that this is the definite answer. From the question you stated him as your "husband" so you must have loved him quite a bit to enter into such a commitment. So maybe you just miss him so much that you look for happiness, warmth and love from someone else. Thanks to this man being accessible then it could be your mind telling you that you love him but are really just missing your husband too much. So my suggestion is that you wait until your husband returns and then make your decision after spending time with your husband and realizing the love (or not) that you feel for him.Whatever your choice, your in a bit of a sticky pickle. Much luck with whatever you choose. I hope you make the right choice.
Confront him/her and tell the truth, if you are or aren't having a(n) affair with her boyfried/husband/fiance.
It means that he is having an affair, and you should kick his butt to the curb....
You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!
if you leave his cheating butt, he is no longer having an affair, he's getting laid elsewhere...you should be healing your emotional wounds and standing on your feet NOT your knees
an american affair
No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was at fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.
You should not be having an affair with a married woman but if you love her and she really loves you more than your husband you should ask her to divorce him! if she doesnt then she might not really love you as much as you think.
no. no affairs should be ignored. if he is having an affair with another women then that is unsuitable and should be resolved
what do you mean should you let her have an affair. If you wife wanted to have an affair she does not need your approval. Did, you get her approval. You sound somewhat stupid.
No. Let sleeping dogs lie.
Only if you know the husband will not try and kill you
Uhm, no they basically lose all trust for their husbands. If the Husband didn't want to lose their wife they never should have had an affair in the first place. Juss sayingANSWER:I don't know about others, but for some wives, including myself you will never forget your husband's affair, especially if your husband fell in love with the woman he was having the affair with. If you ask man some will say it doesn't bothers them, some will say they can handle it as long as the wife will not do it again. But in a real world, a lot of women will not forget the affair, even they forgiven their husband. Also it will depend on how bad the situation is..