answersLogoWhite

0


Best Answer

Ooh, that's tough. I've been cheated on and finding out is not the greatest feeling in the world. However there are many different things to take into account. You might not be able to handle the lifestyle of waiting around for any news from your husband. So you might be giving up on the idea of being a war wife subconsciously. This doesn't mean that this is the definite answer. From the question you stated him as your "husband" so you must have loved him quite a bit to enter into such a commitment. So maybe you just miss him so much that you look for happiness, warmth and love from someone else. Thanks to this man being accessible then it could be your mind telling you that you love him but are really just missing your husband too much. So my suggestion is that you wait until your husband returns and then make your decision after spending time with your husband and realizing the love (or not) that you feel for him.Whatever your choice, your in a bit of a sticky pickle. Much luck with whatever you choose. I hope you make the right choice.

User Avatar

Wiki User

12y ago
This answer is:
User Avatar

Add your answer:

Earn +20 pts
Q: What should a woman do if she is having an affair while her husband is deployed and she falls in love with the man?
Write your answer...
Submit
Still have questions?
magnify glass
imp
Related questions

What should you do with friend who thinks that you are having an affair with her boyfriend or husband?

Confront him/her and tell the truth, if you are or aren't having a(n) affair with her boyfried/husband/fiance.


What does it mean when your husband goes to the movie with his ex and his child?

It means that he is having an affair, and you should kick his butt to the curb....


How do you tell your husband girlfriend's employer about their affair?

You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!


What is the final stage of an affair my husband's?

if you leave his cheating butt, he is no longer having an affair, he's getting laid elsewhere...you should be healing your emotional wounds and standing on your feet NOT your knees


What should I title a paper about a couple getting a divorce because the husband had an affair with another man?

an american affair


Should you hunt down the woman that had an affair your husband?

No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was at fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.


What to do when an affair with a married woman ends she wants to continue a friendship but both are still in love?

You should not be having an affair with a married woman but if you love her and she really loves you more than your husband you should ask her to divorce him! if she doesnt then she might not really love you as much as you think.


Can you ignore your husbands affair?

no. no affairs should be ignored. if he is having an affair with another women then that is unsuitable and should be resolved


Should I have my wife have an affair to make up for me having an affair?

what do you mean should you let her have an affair. If you wife wanted to have an affair she does not need your approval. Did, you get her approval. You sound somewhat stupid.


Should you tell the wife you had an affair with her husband?

No. Let sleeping dogs lie.


Should you have an affair with a married woman?

Only if you know the husband will not try and kill you


Do wives really ever forget about a husbands affair?

Uhm, no they basically lose all trust for their husbands. If the Husband didn't want to lose their wife they never should have had an affair in the first place. Juss sayingANSWER:I don't know about others, but for some wives, including myself you will never forget your husband's affair, especially if your husband fell in love with the woman he was having the affair with. If you ask man some will say it doesn't bothers them, some will say they can handle it as long as the wife will not do it again. But in a real world, a lot of women will not forget the affair, even they forgiven their husband. Also it will depend on how bad the situation is..