What should you do if a girl is playing hard to get?

Answer 1

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• If she's playing hard to get but is interested, you don't need to worry. Tell her you love her and maybe she'll go along with it. She also might be doing this because her friends disapprove but she still likes you and is afraid of what they might think.
• Just try harder.
• You end up playing hard to get as well. Just sit there and make her think that there is something special about you too. Girls come running when they think they cant have a chance too. So just sit back, be nice, treat her with respect and give her compliments, but do not smother her. Let her have her space. Sooner or later she will realize that playing hard to get is not worth it.
• Heck I would just rather go for someone who is a sweetheart and not hard to get than someone who is stuck up and playing games.
• If she's playing hard to get then she isn't truly interested. If she liked you she wouldn't be playing games with you. Find someone who is more mature and knows what they want.
• If she's playing hard to get there's a good chance she's not worth your time anyway, so give her her chance by asking her out and if she doesn't take it forget about her.

Answer 2

Although they may flirt or mingle, many girls want a guy to show real enthusiasm, to the point that they pretend to be disinterested.

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They do this because they do not want to admit that they like you. So they play the game of "hard to get." So you should just play it back. However, it may be that the girl is just really shy.

Answer 3

Sometimes girls play hard to get because they are afraid of getting hurt because of prior relationships. or maybe she's afraid your just going to use her. you have to go the extra mile for her to understand that you REALLY do have feelings for her, just straight up tell her that you like her. something sweet and nice is great, but dont ask for her imput right away. wait for her to have time to think about it. because knowing me and my friends we always confront the other first. good luck :)

Answer 4

When a girl plays hard to get they want you to chase after them, so you can either do it and give them what they want or play hard to get yourself. This might make her change her attitude and she will stop playing hard to get or you might end up both playing hard to get and eventually going separate ways.

Answer 5

Do whatever your doing to play to get but at the same time try to like flirt with his friends. Not in a bratty way just enough to get his attention. But as soon as he starts being interested don't play hard to get too much or he could just get annoyed. hope i helped:)

Answer 6

if she is playing hard to get she will be rude to you and will flirt with you but "acts' like they dont want you.

Answer 7

be hard too ! she knows u will go easy :)

Answer 8

try harder