I say you should both go your separate ways because college is a big deal. You're going to meet new people and you don't want to meet someone and end up breaking someone's heart over some college fling. If it's true love it will come back, but there will be a lot of girls at college and a lot of temptations. I say break it off and if it's meant to be, you will reunite after college.
Tell your boyfriend that he is too expensive for you, and you are leaving him so that you can find a more affordable boyfriend.
The song by Taylor Swift is about parting with her boyfriend for a long distance relationship, which would eventually end in parting ways. Swift reported that she wrote the song in her math class during her freshman year of high school, when her boyfriend was leaving for college.
Sometimes it is better not to say anything, she will get over it!
You don't put up with it and get out of that relationship as soon as possible - if you are afraid of leaving tell your parents or someone you trust that is older.
dont be stupid why would you want him to still be your boyfriend if he was charged with agravated assualt and with a deadly weapon sorry but wake up and smell the coffee but you will be leaving that relationship in a body bag
I don't think you believe your own words of "an excellent long-term relations with someone you absolutely adore" or you wouldn't be breaking off this relationship. Some long distant relationships can survive distance and time, so why not give it a shot. If you split-up from this person they are free and 21 and you may well lose them. Take the chance, have a talk with your partner and keep this relationship going. It is possible if you love someone to remain true to them. I was in love with my boyfriend (now married) and we had separated for 6 months, but I loved him dearly and although I dated (didn't sleep with anyone else), he was the one for me and luckily the wait was worth the effort.
You cannot keep him from leaving you or getting "stolen" if he chooses to leave however, you can only do what you are capable of in the capacity of having a good relationship between the two of you.
No
you should see how your relationship with your boyfriend is going, and see if the other guy is worth leaving your current boyfriend for him. and if you do decide to leave him do it on good terms. and then wait atleast 3 weeks to a month to move on , you dont wanna make the guy feel like a rebound.
If he doesn't show you respect, dump him. Respect is one of the basics in a relationship! leaving love out of the picture, decent people treat each other with respect. You deserve someone who treats you right.
ya i think you should. you can still have a relationship...and maybe its true love
If by leaving things you mean leaving material things and objects, he probably is getting closer to you and wants to move in.