What should you do if you and your boyfriend were at your best friend's house and you caught the two of them in the bathroom together?

Answer 1

Well you can't accuse someone without evidence. Was his penis dangling out ?? was she looking for her contacts or somthing which had fallen on the ground?? or was she giving him a oral sex?? or is your friend a Doctor Who is looking at your boyfrind's body for medical reasons?? Either confront them, and listen to what they say and since you have no evidence of them cheating behind your back you can't accuse them. Or you could be on the lookout and try to catch them red handed (if they are cheating). Or if you like threesomes then this is your chance.... I don't think there's a need for confrontation with two liars or the waste of time finding further 'evidence'. What is pathetic is that they had the nerve to do this while you're in the next room. There was something, flirtation or physical wise, going on between them prior to this. They weren't suddenly teleported into his bathroom, unaware of how they got there. So you can either dump your girlfriend and reconsider your friendship with this guy, or expect more goings on behind your back. It's up to you. I need more information.. Is he smiling? If you aren't sure they are cheating behind your back , you won't be asking this question. So its time you make a decision, either trust your instinct whatever it maybe (they are cheating or they are not cheating behind your back) and make your call. If you can't sleep at night because you can't accept any other explantion for them being in the same room ( other than her giving him a oral sex) ...then dump him and move on, better to have another boyfriend than think of your friend having sex with your current boyfriend 24/7. The thing is if you don't dump him but continue to watch him like a hawk, you may push him a way anyway. So either trust him and be prepared for the concequences (they could cheat behind your back for the rest of your life because they are too ahamed to tell you or it could have been nothing, highly doubt it anyway) ...its a difficult choice but a simple one... what was their excuse anyway? Well, what did they have to say. I would think your assumption is right, she was going down on him. You have to make a decision of whether to go on with a cheating girlfriend and a "best mate" that are doing things behind your back, if this was the first time, or just forgive them and go on about your business. Personally, I would dump both of them because they have no respect for you or your feelings if they are willing to be deceitful to you. I dont care how many drinks they had, there are boundaries that were in place and they are using that as an excuse. Find a better girlfriend and a better best mate. It's exactly what it looks like.