What should you do if you are in love with a guy and he doesn't love you anymore but you can't stand to see him with any other girls?

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I'm afraid there is nothing you can do if he doesn't love you anymore. You will need to go through the relationship grief process and get over it. Just don't pay attention to what he is doing. It is a girl-thing. Girls have to watch their ex and see what they are up to and it is only torturing them further. Cut off all contact, don't look at him and do something to keep busy so you don't think about it. It's true.If you keep on watching to see what he's been up to, you only harm yourself. I used to do the same thing, until I didn't care about him anymore. After I stopped caring and ignoring him (cutting off ALL contact) he started noticing me! They come around, trust me, but only after you truly stop caring about him. Live your life. Don't ever talk to him, look at him, don't talk about him, or think about him. First few times you will have to fake it, after that it will be natural. Ofcourse go through the grieving process but don't ever let him catch you sad and upset. Always be happy. Talk to other guys..He has to realize that you no longer want him.Dress extra beautiful. Make people watch you and ask about who you are. This will go to his ear somehow,when he sees what he left is the most wanted by other guys, he'll start to think about you and miss you. After all, guys want what they can't have and he will eventually come back. But by then you probably wont even like him because you will realize life is much better off without him anyway! Good Luck-it works, you will see for yourself if you only try..