Tightness isn't a static state, the vagina is only tight when you are tense.
The vagina is a muscular tube, if you're tense then your vaginal muscles tense causing the vaginal walls to clench together and narrow the vaginal canal. Thus why you need to relax when you are inserting a tampon, if you have problem with relaxing try masturbating first as when aroused as well as relaxing your vagina lubricates, opens, and increases in size so insertion is easier.
Practice tensing and relaxing your vaginal muscles - these are the same muscles you'd use to stop urine mid-flow - if you insert fingers vaginally you'll feel how these muscles tense and relax.
Speak with your gynecologist, consult with your Dr. is the best and smartest option.
I hope you are not wearing a tampon when not on a period. This is unhealthy and if you are just starting your period you should not be using a tampon until you are older. The tampon box gives written as well as a diagram of how to put in a tampon. Follow the directions and read the warnings. This is very important.
you should put in a tampon and wear a pad in your underwear
It wouldn't hurt the baby, but why would you put in a tampon, if you're pregnant you don't have your period.
Every tampon box has detailed instructions with picture of how to put a tampon in. Very gingerly Follow the instructions in the pack.
is there a special way to put a tampon in my anus
You might be uncomfortable, and the tampon would not be able to expand and function normally.
No. Just put in an air tight container.
Put a tampon in or use a pad.
Put a tampon in your but
Well depending on how long your tampon has been in. When you first put the tampon in there should be no blood when you wipe, the tampon should absorb it up, after a few hours and depending on your flow, you might start to notice some blood when you wipe. When that happens you should probably change your tampon to avoid leaking or staining. Good Luck
at least 5 minutes. if not more. they should be VERY tight!!!
You can only use a tampon if you're menstruating - if you're a boy you may menstruate, but only if you have a uterus and vagina (e.g. if you're a trans boy). If you're a cis boy then there's absolutely no reason for you to be using tampons and nowhere for you to put a tampon as you don't have a vagina. So in short, if you are a boy you do not put a tampon in at all.