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What should you do if you have a friend that won't move on and keeps doing things to remind herself of her ex and upsets herself?
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∙ 17y ago
Some people think that we only grieve over the dead, but we can grieve over the loss of a relationship or even losing our home to natural disasters or a home that has burned down. Your friend is grieving over the loss of her ex and she has every right to. There is no time limit on grief. You are a good friend to her and so be patient and don't expect too much out of her at first. Just listen, then in a month slowly get her out to have a little fun. Don't be too quick to try and set her up with another man. When the time is right she will find someone else. Good luck Marcy You have to be patient with her. We all deal with grief in various ways. If she feels that you are judging her she may distance herself from you. You can be supportive and encouraging, but take care not to try to go against what she's doing. Let her know you have faith that she will get through this. Believe in her. After time you may get exhausted from all the drama, especially if she isn't making any progress. You may need to take a break from her for a bit but try to do it w/o hurting her feelings. I think that you should just take her out, and have some fun! Get her mind off of it. I know that I always dwell on breakups and ex boyfriends when I have time to dwell!! Maybe go out and meet some new guys, that would reallyy get her mind off of him! But it's not good to just mope around and think all the time.. it's useless and will just drive you insane! Be a good friend and get her mind off of it!
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