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What should you do if you have been with a guy for a week and he has a girlfriend but you really like him and you think he really likes you?

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August 23, 2016 3:36PM

If you've been with him a week and he already has a girlfriend,

you are involved with a guy who is cheating. Is that really the

kind of guy you want?

Consider this, if he continues seeing you and dumps his current

girlfriend, do you think you'll ever be able to truly trust him? Or

do you think you'll be suspicious or jealous knowing that he has

been unfaithful in the past?

Think with your head and not your hormones.


He's a player who's using you and his girlfriend. He may like you,

but that doesn't mean he would be any more faithful you than he is

to his current girlfriend.


Ok girls this is the very same predicament that I am in as I type.

Mine is just a little tweaked..I met this guy over at a friends

house and we talked for hours and we really hit it off so we shared

a bed that night, no intercourse took place believe me. So I found

myself thinking about this guy so when I got a phone call from him

a few days later I was overwhelmed with happiness! but

unfortunately he was calling to tell me that he has got a

girlfriend and cannot see me and her at the same time. I was

crushed. The thing that has been helping me is advice, well what my

brother tells his wife.."if I ever got the feeling or the notion to

cheat on you or ever feel like I needed to be with another person

then we would get a divorce because obviously we are not working

out and should not be together anymore." I have to believe his eyes

and if he really likes me like he said he does then he'll leave his

girlfriend because they are not working out. Say I'm in denial but

you didn't see his eyes and it helps and I have plans to see him

son so we can talk about it. Its not much of an answer but a way to

help people who aren't willing to believe that they met that one

special person that they belong with and just can't have.


if you knew from the beginning, it is likely you have a self

confidence issue or need a little excitement in your life.

the truth is you know those things can and usually do end


and you know his attention is elsewhere and not only you

you have to have some confidence and self respect and decide

that the excitement and little boost is probably not worth all the

heartache, self doubt and trust issues you will probably get from


unless you are truly able to be utterly fine with him being with

someone else, this is not going to work

you should deal with whatever issues you have that would make

you seek out this type of relationship, because there are plenty

nice, good looking guys without girlfriends, and you take the one

that has one.

its quite a self destructive ting to do to yourself and you need

to work out why you are doing it.

If he REALLY liked you he would break up with his girlfriend and

date you.

what he likes is that its great to feel wanted and fancied, and

its great to have a 'bit on the side' that will be there and do for

you what you cant get with your partner.

hes using you and he probably will use other girls and probably

has done before.

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