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What should you do if you love your good friend and you have told her this and she shows you affection yet hasn't said how she really likes you but she says she has a boyfriend she hates?
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∙ 12y ago
If she loved you in the way that you need her to love you then she would have left her boyfriend by now to be with you.
Because of the way you feel about her it is very easy for you to believe that she hates her boyfriend. If this were true she would leave him.
It sounds like she is more interested in the attention and adoration you are giving her rather than YOU. Otherwise, she would not be hurting you like this.
I think that you should be frank with her. Arrange a meeting and talk - properly. You need some direct answers from her. You need to know how she feels about you. If she loves you, then you need to ask her to leave her boyfriend. If she won't, then you need to break the friendship.
It sounds harsh, but it is no longer a friendship anymore once one person loves the other in a romantic way. There is no turning back. So, unless she feels the same, then, for your own sanity, you need to stay away from her.
Staying with her 'as a friend' will only amount to you getting hurt over and over and you will be using up precious time - time that you could have used to find someone who genuinely loves you.
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If your boyfriend is hangong out with your best friend more then you Should I be worried?
not really
Is it good talking to your boyfriends friend and then you come to know that your boyfriend's friend is interested in you?
well first off it is always flattering to have someone like you? But for it to be your boyfriends friend that can cause problems for you. If you really wanna be with your boyfriend you really should only hang around his friend in a comfortable setting and you should let your boyfriend no about what you have discovered.
What should you do if your best friend doesn't approve of your boyfriend?
Well, if your best friend likes your boyfriend, then I really think you shouldn't date him. If your best friend just doesn't like him, then you should just date him. I mean, does it really matter what your best friend thinks? She should like you no matter who you date.
If your friend calls your boyfriend without letting you know is she really your friend?
She should be put on your "watch list" immediately.
How should your boyfriend behave when you are together with his friend girl?
Just like he does with anyone else, or he isn't really a good boyfriend!
Why would your boyfriends best friend try to get with you?
Well it depends. Is your boyfriend's best friend recently been dumped? Cause then he could be confused. Or maybe, you make your boyfriend really happy and his best friend wanted to be happy too. You should tell your boyfriend if you really love him.
What do you do when your best friend is pissed at you for fluriting with her boyfriend?
My opinion, I would talk it out. If you like her boyfriend, you at least should tell her about it. You are not really a friend if you flirt with her boyfriend. Plus that make you look like a man Stealer.
Should i go out with my x-best friend's x-boyfriend?
if it is just to make her/him mad then no you should not but..........if you really like him then
I love my friend's boyfriend and I am really jealous of them what should I do?
Oo... I would back off. If you really are a friend, don't do anything. Besides, there are plenty of boys in the world.
What should a person look for in a best friend or a boyfriend?
The friend or boyfriend should be loyal, supportive, easy to talk to/confide in, easy and fun to be around, and un-judgmental. It really depends on you, though, what traits you prefer.
What should you do if you love your boyfriend but you are starting to fall for his really amazing best friend?
Simple. Break up with your boyfriend. Rather that than cheating on him!
Should you tell your friend that you slept with her boyfriend?
If you really are a friend, you don't and you don't sleep with the boyfriend again. Sleeping with him sure didn't make you one of her friends. That is considered a betrayal of friendship.
