What should you do if your 14 and you want a baby and your pregnant but your boyfriend doesnt?

Answer 1

When getting pregnant as young as this very very few relationships last and you should be prepared for being a single parent if you choose to keep it. He still have to pay child support. There is nothing you can do to force him to be interested or wanting to become a parent. He can sign his rights away and move on with his life. Becoming a mom at 14 means you have to take a look at your future.

# 60% of all teen moms drop out of school.

# You have to live at home a lot longer then you planned.

# Will never have any money.

# You will not make it without your parents paying and baby sitting and most likely are they not looking forward to have another baby in the house.

# Your friends will move on and you will loose contact with many of them.

#If you manage to go to college it will most likely be the local one and you will have no choices.

# if you think it's hard to do homework now you can imagine what it's like when you have a baby that wakes up every 2 hours and is really awake at 5 in the morning. Your parents have work so there's only you.

# Daycare cost and most likely will you not have the money so you are stuck at home.

Your options are keeping the baby, give it up for adoption (and if you do have a contract written if you want a open adoption or they can change their minds) or an abortion. This is something you need to discuss with your parents because they will play a even bigger part in your life if you choose to keep it. In the end the choice is yours.

And I wasn't writing the things above to discourage you but you should make a decision based on facts. It's easy to be a baby mood and see everything in baby pink (or baby blue). Reality will hit you hard if you are not ready for it.