What should you do if your boyfriend emails girls on the internet a lot and the emails that you read are innocent but you still think he is cheating on you because he is not very affectionate?

Answer 1

For starters, you said yourself that the emails were innocent - even by the standards of you - his girlfriend! I would think if he were cheating on you with any of these women, it would show up in his emails to them, but there really is only one way to find out and that is to ask him. But has he always been unaffectionate or is it only recent, if he has always been that way, that could just be his personality, if not then you need to ask him about the emails without sounding like you are accusing him or he will get defensive. Just tell him you found them, and watch his reaction, if he gets really nervous or immediatly starts trying to make excuses be suspicious, but if he seems calm then its more likely a trust issue with you. Try and ask yourself if you can trust him, because if you cant then this relationship is going to be very rocky - you need trust to build a strong relationship, perhaps you should give him the benefit of the doubt until any evidence appears if it does.