It also depends on how mature your friend (or you) is being about it. If you are both mature about it, one of you will probably get her (assuming she likes one of you) and the friend who didn't get her will get over her and be happy for the one who did get her. If the level of maturity is low, then (still assuming she likes one of you) one of you will get her and the friend who didn't get her will be mad and make a huge deal about it.
talk to them both.
If you really love (as a friend) your friend then maybe you should give him a chance with the girl or both of you just leave it behind and continue on with your lives and see what happens.
Talk to your friend first, let him know you like the same girl. Be yourself, respectful and honest. Who does the girl like?
You should see which one you like better and see who you like to be with in the long run. Cons: Friend may not like you in the same way Girlfriend will be very upset You will never have the same relationship EVER with this girl and friend
find out if she feels the same
talk about it to her
If the friend of the girl you like asked you then the girl probably likes you and her friend was trying to find out if you felt the same way. So just talk to the friend and bring the girl up and say something like "Ya, I really like her what should do" then she'd think that u really like her and just want advice not that your desprate
I think you should just forget about it and just find another girl that really likes you and you really like her
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Seems like the girl is the one with the problem, but I would defer to my friend. monk3y08 ere : i realy like this girl alot and she is having trouble with picking. Who is more important to you, your girl or your friend? Let her go with the friend, thenyou take her out. It will be easier for her to make up her mind, and you won't lose a friend. Girls come and go. Good friends are hard to find.
Well if he likes you, you should go for him. But since your friend like him too, you should ask your Friend.
If that friend means more to you than your girlfriend, ask your friend how she feels first and if she doesn't feel the same way then stick with the person you are already with.