You sound like a really wonderful person and you and your husband are in a difficult situation. So here goes... Here is an excerpt from a lymphoma patient posted elsewhere on the web about his treatment: "The chemo can cause anxiety, depression and insomnia for some people. I had all three of those side effects. I thought at times I would jump out of my skin." So it is possible that the chemo is partly responsible for your husbands behavior. Also, he forgetting about the drugs, just being sick like that is scary. None of that excuses abusive behavior, but I think you should be more forgiving of his behavior than otherwise. On the other hand, you aren't going to be able to be very supportive if he is constantly tearing you down. So you have to put your foot down, in a loving way, and make time for yourself when you can recharge your batteries. If he is being verbally abusive maybe you should view his outbursts like he is sick child and either ignore them, or just roll your eyes and tell him that you know that the medicine is making him act really annoying. If you are afraid he will hurt you, that is a different matter, and then you have to ballance helping him with helping yourself.
You should basicly call the police, they will probobly help by calling the doctor to find out if there is anything making your husbands behaivour.
Honestly, police officer boyfriends and husbands are not abusive. They are out in the streets fighting crime all day, so when they get home they are tired.
Anderson - 2011 Wives Who Kill Abusive Husbands was released on: USA: 9 February 2012
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Keep them away from the father and make an agreement with him not to be verbally abusive to your children
Yes.
They're afraid of what they're husbands/boyfriends will do to them or their friends/family if they leave.
Abusive behavior that specifically targets gay people is called homophobia.
Yes, it is. If someone is abused or sees/hears a lot of abuse when they are younger chances are they are going to be abusive themselves.
No. Abuse is only the result of the choice to use an abusive tactic. In any situation, abusive behavior is a choice, and non-abusive behavior can be chosen at the same time. The frequency of sex in a marriage can not cause abuse, but abuse can definitely impact the frequency of sex in a marriage.
We cannot speak for all abusive men, but we assume that most of them know that they are abusers. Abusive men tend to come from abusive homes, and the behavior may seem normal to them. Others may feel that such behavior is their right. Most of them know the law, but when rage strikes, the law often doesn't mean much.
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