Sit down and try and remember how you felt when he left you, and how you felt while you two were together. If you were happy then maybe consider taking him make, but if he made you miserable or abused you in anyway, then you have been given the chance to escape, and there is no point in not taking it. If this man has left you once, would he leave you again? How do you feel about him? Can you imagine spending forever with him, and does it make you happy thinking about that? Hope this helps. If your husband is abusive, tell him to leave...forever.Tell yourself to seek council & read everthing possible about abuse in order grow out of disfunction.
He should probably go back to college so he can play football.
He has demonstrated that you can't trust him. If that kind of behavior is acceptable to you, go ahead and stay with him. But the simple, sad truth is, he will do it again.
Your husband is obviously regretting what he did. It is your decision though to take him back. If you love him maybe give him a second chance.
Unless it is a cultural issue and the parents have the say, even most young people of different countries have become Westernized and therefore your husband should stand up for himself and decide if he wants to come back to you or not and you should ask him for that decision soon or you are filing for divorce.
Ignore what she says. She just wants you to wait for her. She wants to be able to come back to you, if she breaks up with her boyfriend. IF she was coming back, she would just come back and not talk about coming back.
dont do it. my ex wife cheated on me and now has more children and wants me back as well. not a hope in hell.
All you can really do is let him know that you are willing to be there for him should he decide to come back to you. But chances are, if he still loves you and wants you back, he'll find a way to get back to you.
If he is single try and talk with him and take things from there. If he has moved on and in a relationship, let him be and move on.
Only if she wants to go
If she misses her ex husband, then no she doesn't want you back. She misses him, not you.
Talk to her about it. See what she wants and if she still wants to go out with you. If she wants to break up then at least you know you did what was best and can move on faster.
Either together in the back seat, or the wife in the front with the friend and the husband in the back.