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What should you do when your husband says he doesn't want to be with you anymore but he acts like everything is OK between you except when it comes to being intimate?
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∙ 18y ago
When we either date a person for a long time, live with them or marry them, then we do form attachments being love or just fondness. Couples go through a lot together and like it or not we form a bond even if it's not love. If your husband is 40+ you can almost bet on male menopause that use to be called "Midlife Crisis." Around the age of 40 we all start to wonder if we did all the right things, and feel this is the last ditch effort to "make things right and do things we've wanted to do." Often some people will have extra marital affairs to compensate other problems they have in their lives ... like recapturing youth. Some men (even women) feel these needs and while some men will sit around like a dull thud and never let you in on their feelings, other men will take action and go out and have an affair. Also, if your husband is on medications check them out for side effects because some medications can cause depression and low sex drive. Diabetics and people with heart problems often have a lack of interest in sex. When a man knows he can't perform it's tough on them. They have had it drilled into their heads that if they can't perform in the sexual department then how could their wives ever love them. For most of us we'd take it in our stride because we love the inner person, and we can deal with the rest of the problems at a slow and steady pace. To have a healthy relationship you need to be held and loved on occasion and if he can't provide this for you then you have to decide if you want to ruin the rest of your life. Personally, I wouldn't live in a loveless marriage. I was married to a man before that was mentally/physically abusive to me and just before our 4th Wedding Anniv., I left him. I wasn't willing to give up my loving nature so easily and expected when I gave it to get it back too. It's a decision I never regretted. I eventually married a big, gentle giant whom I love dearly and we've been happily married for 33 years. I'm so glad I didn't settle for less. Good luck Marcy
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∙ 18y ago
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Henri Lamour, her Husband.
Example of intimate register dialog in english?
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If you dream your husband does not want to be intimate with you, then it means that you are having a strained relationship.
Who is zainabs husband in eastenders?
she hasn't got a husband anymore
Your husband has never taken you to a fancy dinner he doesn't want to be intimate anymore but he says everything is fine What should you think?
Try Cialis for him. As men age, they lose testosterone. Women think with their heads and hearts, but men have another way of thinking and without their testosterone support, they lose interest in romance and passion and dating and everything else that at one time got them 'laid' which is what they used to want and desire. Now you understand why a women who has a younger man is ahead of the game and smiled on by many women. Ask your husband to fulfill his marriage obligations or go to therapy to dig deeper on his subject and learn how you can live with this..or not.
How do you know when your wasting your time rebuilding a marriage?
When you and your husband can not agree on things anymore. If your idea is not his idea. If the two of you can't stand each others anymore let alone being in a room together. If everything you do or he do is not good enough. If the two of you can not come up with solution with the problems.
Why wont my husband kiss me anymore?
We're really not the people to ask. You should try asking your husband.
Why is it hard to have intimacy after your husband had the affair?
An affair is a betrayal of trust, and it is very hard to be comfortable and intimate with someone (your husband or anyone else) when your trust has been betrayed.
Use the word anymore in a sentence?
I don't eat meat anymore because I decided to become a vegetarian.
What statement best describes the thematic difference between To My Dear Loving Husband and To the King's Most Excellent Majesty?
"To My Dear and Loving Husband" by Anne Bradstreet focuses on romantic love and partnership between husband and wife, while "To the King's Most Excellent Majesty" by Anne Finch celebrates loyalty and devotion to a monarch. The former is personal and intimate, while the latter is formal and reverential in tone.
Why does your husband hint that you are too old?
when the intercourse isn't as good anymore
