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Don't mind her find people who will include you in things.

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You could ask her (one of them). I know that you're hurt and it will be hard, but the sooner that you get the topic on the table, the sooner it can be dealt with. If you wait for something to happen or something to change, it will fester and you won't be able to handle the situation on a rational level.

If you can get up the courage to ask, do it when you'll be able to use a calm and composed tone of voice. Be patient to listen to what she says; don't let yourself become defensive or enraged. If she believes that you are "listening" to her, she may respond in kind. If she tells you that you are "this" or "that" don't be defensive by responding to whatever she says, trying to defend yourself or getting angry with her will only escalate to a screaming match and you will be no better off than before you started. Remember that you are in your listening and thinking mode; at least that's what you want her to think. Tell her thank you and that you will think about what she said and end it there.

Remember that what she says is her opinion; we all have them, even you. Trying to tell someone that their opinions are wrong or that they're stupid usually makes the hostility worse. Your position at this point is "knowledge is power". If there is something that she told you that you feel you could do better, do so in your future relationships with the family. For the most part now, you will be showing her that she has the wrong impression of you by being yourself. Don't try to get back at her, don't discuss your conversation with her or other family members; eventually, you will hear from someone that "they were wrong about you" or you will get invited. If this doesn't happen, it means that the problem is hers (theirs), not yours, and you probably don't want to socialize with her (them) anyway. Just be polite and tolerant toward them. Be your own self, do your own things. Revert to answer above.

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