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What to do when your spouse says you make him feel like he is not good enough for you?
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∙ 8y ago
Most people just see "the mood" of that person, and don't stop to realize how complicated life can get for each one of us. Perhaps your spouse has stress' at work; feels his/her age; is going through a hormonal upheaval (we all do) or they could be mildly depressed. Even the onset of a disease can cause mood changes and most certainly some medications can change a person's mood to the negative. It would be advisable if you can, to get your spouse into the doctor as soon as possible (and hope they agree to it) and talk to the doctor. A good physical and perhaps a good visit just between your mate and the doctor to talk things over will help. There is good counseling and some good medications if your spouse is depressed. Don't always think it's you. People have many different moods. Try and help, and if they refuse to get help, and you find it hard to live with this person then give them the choice of getting the help or you are leaving. This could shock them into seeing their doctor. Good luck Marcy
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∙ 18y ago
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∙ 17y agoIts not a "form" of abuse, it IS abuse! He is setting you up in the classic abuser fashion of a no-win situation. I bet hes the type to pull the rug out from under you when you least expect it. You will never be able to please him as he changes the rules all the time. There are no reference points. From what you say, it sounds as if your spouse is making it completely impossible for you to please him. Why does he apparently have some deep-seated need to put you down and to make you feel worthless? In other words, what is his problem? Is he sick? Does he have a personality disorder? The main thing is that you shouldn't be treated like this. It's a form of abuse, and your spouse needs treatment. If he refuses to see a professional (together with you), that's a very bad sign. In marriage one often finds projection. A husband who feels worthless may feel a need to convince himself and his wife that she's the one who's worthless. It's a very nasty and dishonest 'game'. I'm sorry I can't be more optimistic.
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∙ 8y agoLet your spouse know that he isn't good enough for you. Because you aren't good enough for him either. When your in love then you shouldn't deserve each other, you should only want one another. He loves you so much that he feels like you may have just settled for him. He loves you enough that he doesn't want you to settle, he wants you to feel like you've just meddled in the Olympics of Life when you've decided on that special someone. You just make sure he KNOWS, and FEELS like you feel you have meddled in the O.o.L's.(olympics of life) Just give him that extra kiss every morning and night, it may not sound like much, but it's more than you'd think. And trust me, he'll thank you...
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