you say that your always there for them. they need to know that someone, anyone is there. they feel alone, and misunderstood. you do NOT yell at them, or tell them to "just stop". that will only put more pressure on them. dont say that your mad at them, that will get them upset. coming from a self harmer, i know what they want. oh yeah and DO NOT call them "emo". "emo" is not cutting, its just a style. the key to talking to them is, just dont make them feel bad and make sure that they know that your there for them.
No, there are there for you to talk to, you do not have to tell them who you are or where you live for them to listen to you.
You can't 'motivate' someone to stop self harming. It's not that simple. he needs a professional. e.g child mental health professional.
yes. drawing blood just means your harming to a higher extent
Yes it is. Im not sure why but many people become addicted to self harm as if it were a drug or alchohal.
Give them a stress ball or get them to puch a pillow make him/her pretend that its someone they really hate.
self harming
abuse is treated like harming and killing like whipping someone and harming someone even like killing someone
I think it would just depend on the person. When did a person start self-harming them-self
I think it would just depend on the person. When did a person start self-harming them-self
Yes. self harm is biting,hitting,scratching,cutting,burning can be absoutley anythinng. You are still harming yourself, drawing blood just means your doing it to a higher extent, but none the less still hurting yourself.
If someone ask about your scares just tell them you got them from falling. Or you could also tell them the truth.
Why would you want to bully your self? If you are talking about self harming or inflicting pain on your self, then I'd advise you talk to a close friend or a trusted adult, or me, if you want. Self harming is a terrible thing to do, I know, I've been there. But if you stop, it can really make you feel so much better about your self. And if you are thinking of making it look like you've been bullied don't. And there is no good reason for people to bully you. I think you should talk to someone who can support and encourage you.