O.K., I know about these types of situations because my godmother's a lesbian. When people hear that, they usually get grossed out or turned on. It just depends. Just assure her that you will always love her no matter what and try to understand her point of view. If she is, don't ask why. That sounds like accusations to a teenager. Just talk to her about. Ask her if this is what she really wants, has she experienced it before, being with a girl, and taht type of thing. But make sure she knows that you will back her one hundred percent.
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Act normally, like she didn't say anything that's worth gossiping. If she responds, something along the lines of "I'm embarrassed, inform that even though us human beings may be viewed differently, heard differently or behaving differently but all of us are the same inside. You shouldn't be treated differently because of your sex, sex, weight, skin colour, ethnic background, sexuality and so on... Tell her there is nothing to be afraid of and thank her for her trusting you to take this in.
The only way to ask is the direct approach. Or better yet, focus on your own life and give your friend some space to come to you.
You be honest... If you want to, you say yes, if not, you say no.
She tells you that she is a lesbian.
I find this question confusing, as you say you are a lesbian and your friend is gay...yet you are attracted to each other..
Find new friends. A friend isn't going to say that.
It's just an expression to tell you that you're very beautiful and you know how girls are and beauty they can make guys turn heads! == == im thinking she might want to have sex with you but dont do it!! I agree with the previous answer completely JeepAmerica I think that if you feel that ur a lesbian, tell her the same thing. But if your not then just say im not a lesbian and were friends, End of story. I say just say aww ur to sweet and the have sex
If you are both girls then you would have to be a lesbian to want o go out with her. If you are a lesbian and you are attracted to your friend, ask them out! But before you ask them, make sure they are a lesbian too otherwise you might ask them and they might avoid you and think you were a creep! So ... If you are sure they are a lesbian, ASK HER OUT!Just say this:"Hey, I don't mind what you say but ... Will you go out with me?"Then they can only say Yes or No!FromAunt Sydney xx
if your friend is a boy: say ok...who likes me if your friend is a girl: ask her if it's her
if your friend is a boy: say ok...who likes me if your friend is a girl: ask her if it's her
If you really like her even after hearing that she is a lesbian .Then you must confront that girl surely and try to make her your best friend as nothing more can happen if she is a lesbian.
You politely say, "I'm not interested in you because I'm not a lesbian." Or you say, "I'm so glad to hear this. I've been waiting for this moment for so long." If this is your best friend, then you'll know how to speak to her without making her upset or hurting her feelings.
You're a boy, right? Well, she is probably telling you that she is breaking up with you. There's not a lot you can do. People fall in and out of love all the time, and it's hard for both, and often harder on one of the pair. The fact that she is a lesbian doesn't matter much to you. She's saying goodbye. If you're a girl, and one of your girl friends tells you she is a lesbian, then be happy for her. Thank her for trusting you enough to tell you. Tell her how you feel about her and about lesbians. She wants you to say "You're still the same friend as you always were." Can you do that?
There is nothing special that you have to do to support your friend who thinks she might be lesbian. Just be her friend and have the same relationship with her that you have always had.