When you let parent borrow a 1000 dollars but they are late paying you and want another 400 dollars and also a gift being stolen back by parent while in pocket is 40000?

Answer 1

• It is extremely unselfish of you to worry about your parents and are able to loan them money. It is about respect and you have shown yours, but your parents have not shown respect towards your generosity. Many parents would stick to their promise of paying so much of the money back to their child each month or, if there are any difficulties they are upfront and honest about it. It is not your fault that they keep borrowing from you because you care about their stability, but it is time for you to close the vault doors and not lend then anymore money. Once you loan money to parents or any other relative then you are at a great risk of losing your money and never seeing it again. If you feel you still want to help your parents you have the right to ask what the money is for and until they tell you do not give them the money, but, if they tell you it is to pay bills off, etc., then you pay the bills off instead of giving them the money. It is your money; your risk and you have the right to be sure the money is going to the right places.