When you love two men how can you be sure who you should be with?

Answer 1

You know oddly enough I searched this topic to find advice on how to balance two men. I have two specifically that are a major part of my life. Within the next few months we will all be living together under one roof. Both men are aware that I do not bind myself to traditional commitments. They do not either. I am of the understanding that: Sex and Love are two separate yet equal animals we need for our survival. That they are not mutually exclusive to one another nor do the nessecarily need to be connected in all of our relationships. Case in point; I would bet that there are many people in each woman's life that she loves but has not had sex with. In the same token I am also sure that most women have had sex with at least one man they did not love, possiblely one they didn't even know that well. So as we can surely see through our own common behaviors this concept that love and sex are different and need not be held in the same regard is a reasonable assumption. Amy, maybe you should be with both men. I think in society today we rely far too much on one person to be everything for us. From every corner of the Earth, every ethnic and religious

Answer 2

There are two things that you have to look at. First of all, what do you have in common with these people? Usually, dating is best when you two have some things in common. Also, how do you feel about them when they are around? Imagine if they were drowning. Which one would you save first? Does one seem to be more on the same page as you than the other?

Answer 3

You have to make the choice. Look at the one with the best character not looks.