If she is trying to get him back, or still wants him.. Then I would believe your husband. If she is absolutely done with him, then believe her. Good Luck!!
No, it is not a mistake to tell the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband. However, some wives can be in denial and they may not believe their husband is cheating, but most do.
Women by nature are jealous of the other woman so they have a tendency to blame the mistress in the affair and even when the mistress harasses the wife, but it is the husband in this case that should stop the harassment because he started it all. Get tough with the husband and ignore the mistress; the ball is in his court.
Your husband had a tongue in his head and he could have said 'no' to having an affair with the other woman or, he started the affair so it is up to the husband to resolve the problem with the mistress contacting the wife and himself. If the husband does not stop the ex mistress from phoning his wife and himself then the wife should at least apply for a separation because he may still be seeing the mistress.
There's a lot of scenario that you need to look at. If your husband wasn't the one that broke the relationship with his mistress, then his feelings for her will hunt him for a while, knowing the years they spent together. You ask yourself why his mistress called you, after all this years, could it be that your husband promise her that he will divorce you or even move out so he can be with her. Maybe your husband is been promising his mistress from the start and never done anything about it, so she got fed up. Even if this is what's going on with them, I think you need to tell your husband to move out. Don't let him manipulate you by saying sorry or he didn't mean to do it. 5 years affair is five years and no one can justify what he did with you. Don't believe everything your husband and his mistress is telling you. This is not your problem but his, so it's time for you to kick him out so this issue will not be in your hand.
i would tell the husband its 'me or her' and let him choose!!
It depends on the people involved
If your husband has broken off the affair with the mistress then your husband should do the right thing and pay child support, but that does not mean you have to accept the child into the family. If the mistress does not want the child then it is up to you whether you want to help to raise that child. If your husband is still seeing his mistress then pack his bags and kick him out and either file for a separation or divorce.
how does a husband who claims he fell in love with his mistress end this affair i thought we've been happily married for twenty seven years
yes the same hapend to me and fast
You call her mistress until you have sex with her, then you call her your girlfriend.AnswerNo - an affair is an affair. An affair of the heart is just as damning as an affair involving sex.ANSWER:If your husband is seeing the other woman and they went out on a date a few times, he can call her his girlfriend because he is doing the proper ways how to impress a woman. From there they will become more closer because your husband is sharing all the secret that your the only one knew. Girlfriend or mistress has the same meaning, except the words " mistress" is more nasty because the other woman enter to his world. And yes the other person up is right " affair is a affair."
ANSWER: Are you joking, did you think because you had told his wife what he was doing, that will be the end of it. Mistress hardly go and see the wife, of the man she was having the affair, her intent is if the wife learn about her husband, it will automatically going to kick him out of their house. And this is mistress dream. When a woman becomes the mistress it will be for her benefit as well as the married man, why? the only way a mistress can let go her married lover is when she have a soul.
He same if you did it instead. Most states are no fault.