Why are dads mean to their daughters?

Answer 1

Dads are mean, because they are scared that you will hurt yourself if you do something wrong, and sometimes, after they're mad, they get frustrated at you, so next time your dad is being mean, you will know that he just cares about you. Dads are born to protect you, so, try not to get mad at him too.

Answer 2

Depends on how she became your step mom. If she became your step mom by having an affair with your father while your parents were still married then she is "evil" because you (if you are a girl or if you are the fist child, and I am both) remind her of your mother. Step moms hate that, especially if they are really young. My step mom married my dad when she was in her twenties. My dad is ten years older than her. She never liked me and used to treat me so badly emotionally and verbally that I became very depressed and hated her. But then, believe it or not, one day when she had grown up and I had said to her that she was really really hurting me, she took me out to eat, started to crying, and apologized for being so cruel to me for years. So... they're not always awful forever. Some of them grow out of it. Mine still acts weird to me but she is under a lot of stress plus I don't even see her much because I am 25 now. Whenever I tell her I love her she cries. So I know she cares. She just made mistakes. She's only human.

Answer 3

Hi, I'm a new step-mum and I really like my step-daughter. I hope to love her. No, I'm not perfect. Actually, she makes me downright jealous at times and I know I make her jealous too. Lately I've been asking myself a similar question to you? Why are step-families so hard? If I was her mum I probably wouldn't be jealous and neither would she. I've been reading some online forums and notice that if you admit to jealousy people immediately assume you're an evil stepmother. It's not evil, it's not easy. It's the same old, thorny, heart warming human frailty that we all have to live with anyway. Why do step mums have such a bad reputation?

Answer 4

why does my dad not want to see me is it because i am a girl I doubt very much your Dad really doesn't want to see you, and being a girl should have nothing to do with it. Express your feelings to him, and you might be glad you did.

Answer 5

Maybe he thinks your disrespecting him in some way. My stepdad is a complete monster to me. Its always some type of argument and he can't walk into the house after work without yelling at me for something stupid before he even says hello to the other family members. So maybe if you have to do chores, don't wait until the last minute to do them. If he's doing things like being sarcastic and calling you names, then he's just a selfish and ignorant person. Good luck. I hope things work out for you.

<3 - Olivia :)

Answer 6

Usually they are just trying to protect you for your own good. If they ever physically harm you, or molest you, though... THAT'S when you tell someone like a teacher, a trustworthy adult, or (I reccomend this the most) the police. But, usually they are just trying to protect you, or it may be "tough love" which means they tease you, or call you names, to show their affection towards you.

Answer 7

Step-Fathers are not necessarily mean. In some cases, they haven't had any experience with children and are unsure of how to handle disciplinary situations.

Answer 8

I think it's because they embarrass you or try to be cool or maybe they try to be like your real mom or dad they basically want to be part of your family.

Answer 9

Not all step mothers hate their daughters. Not all step daughters hate their mother.

Answer 10

because they are