Why can't you just seem to get over a guy?

Because at some level, you just don't want to. It takes time and it's good to be a little reflective while you "get over" him. Think about what caused you to like him. Think about the things that you would have different about him. Then next time, be more selective. Pick someone who doesn't have the characteristics that you don't like. And even more important, be careful about who you go out with. If you are one of the people who falls in love easily it would be best to not let yourself be in the position where you might be attracted to a guy if he's not the type that will treat you with respect and give you the security that you need. sometime you think about all the good times you had and if you really wanted to get over him you can you just dont want to. you are telling yourself you want to but if you still care about him its going to take sometime. just put your mind and heart into it!!!!