Why children decide to leave mom and live with dad?

Answer 1

Dad may be less strict then mom. They could be playing two ends against the middle so to speak. You have to look to see what dad has that you dont/visaversa. How did mom handle the divorce, was she negative against the dad. You have look at the whole picture. If this move will improve your relationship with your child and they are safe and fed, then go with it. Dont forget as their mother you do still have a say so in what is what.

Answer 2

Cause , their Undecided of what they want to happen in their life &

They think their life is better without a child in it.

But their also affraid of responsibility.....

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Sometimes a father might leave his children because he thinks he will be a bad influence or because his fights with the mother are making it difficult for him, her, or the children to live. But it usually isn't about the children at all; most father's who abandon their family just aren't thinking about the family but are thinking about themselves.

When you have a child, you are agreeing to give up on your own life for a while, and many people are not ready to give up their lives. Women feel this way too, but society frowns on a mother leaving her children more than a father.

Some people just don't want kids and some of the people who don't want kids don't realize that they didn't want kids until they already have them.

In some families it is worse for a father and mother to stay together "for the children", because the children grow up blaming themselves for their parents' unhappiness.